Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Guest Blog: The Genesis of Dragon Lady by Gary Alexander

Istoria Books Presents...
Dragon Lady
by Gary Alexander
April 2011

NOTE: This book is available for only 99 cents up until the end of this week (April 1 - no joke!) exclusively at Amazon’s Kindle store. After that, it will be available at all major etailers for its regular price of $4.99!


In 1965 Saigon, Joe, a young draftee, becomes obsessed with a Vietnam girl named Mai, his own "Dragon Lady" from his beloved Terry and the Pirates cartoon strips that his mother still sends him. As he pursues a relationship with her, Saigon churns with intrigue and rumors--will the U.S. become more involved with the Vietnamese struggle? What's going on with a special unit that's bringing in all sorts of (for the time) high tech equipment? Will the U.S. make Vietnam the 51st state and bomb aggressors to oblivion? But for Joe, the big question is--does Mai love him or will she betray more than just his heart? Gary Alexander’s intelligent voice, filled with dry wit, and his own experiences give this story a sharp sense of truth, recounting the horror and absurdity of war. Reminiscent of books such as Catch-22, Dragon Lady serves up equal measures of outrageous humor and poignant remembrance. Gary Alexander was one of 17,000 US soldiers in Vietnam that spring. When he left in the fall, there were 75,000 troops in-country.


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The Genesis of Dragon Lady
By Gary Alexander

I began having doubts about our entanglement in South Vietnam years before I knew I
wanted to be a writer when I grew up.

In fact, I began having doubts two hours before arriving there. Fresh meat, including me, was on a Boeing 707 from Travis AFB, CA to Saigon’s Tan Son Nhut airport. It was a long island-hopping flight, on which they didn’t feed us for 10-12 hours.  

Then they fed us twice in the last three hours. Hmm.

Duty was pretty good for most GIs in mid-1964. I don’t recall it yet being called the Vietnam War. We were even drawing $55 hazardous duty pay. We joked that the only hazardous duty we faced was being in a bar spending that extra $55 when a satchel of plastique was slung in.

Lost a few GIs that way, but not too many. I always wondered if the next-of-kin were presented Purple Hearts and got write-ups in the local paper.

The last war we’d been in was Korea. No, wait, that was a limited war or, more commonly called, a police action. Therefore it didn’t count, despite ending as a blood-drenched draw.

Our last war was WW II. We’d won every war from then back to the first, the Revolutionary War. We had a 163-year winning streak going.

No steamy, third world backwater was gonna break that string!

Prior to shipping out, we had to look on a map for South Vietnam and knew little of its history. We knew Vietnam had had another war that had ended 10 years earlier. The Commies had kicked the French’s ass at some place out in the boonies called Dien Bien Phu. That was France, though, not the United States of America.

Most of us did believe in the Domino Theory and the spreading danger of godless Communism. But we weren’t any more or less naïve than our superiors, all the way up the line to the White House.

Regardless, armed conflict seemed an abstraction. Really, who was the enemy? Just a ragtag mob of illiterate Marxists, sneaking around in the jungle in their black pajamas and Ho Chi Minh sandals*, which were thongs made of old tires.

Saigon then was still the Paris of the Orient. To us young troops, it was unimaginably exotic. Not Saigon’s sprawling, fetid slums we managed to ignore, but downtown, at and near fashionable Tu Do Street. You could spend more money eating and drinking and whoring in a single evening on Tu Do than the average Vietnamese earned in a month.

If the Vietcong guerrillas wanted to live in malarial swamps living on fish heads and rice, so what? That was their problem. We had French cuisine in downtown Saigon.

As for the beyond-exotic Vietnamese woman, the DragonLadyesque temptress, well, she was far less attainable than a Crêpe Suzette.

Lovely Saigonese women abounded. In their traditional áo dὰi, a silken tunic worn over pantaloons, they were head-turners. Once I saw a striking young lady in an áo dài riding sidesaddle on the back of a Honda motorbike. I walked into a lamppost.

Wisely, 99 percent of those beauties had nothing to do with us.

* I Googled “Ho Chi Minh sandals” and found a site that sells “100% authentic Ho Chi
Minh sandals, identical to the footwear worn by the Vietcong during the Vietnam War”.
They’re handmade near Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon).



Thank you Gary for joining us today.  My review of Dragon Lady will be coming later today and don't forget that you can get this book for $0.99 between now and April 1!




Monday, March 28, 2011

Book Review: Between Shades of Gray by Ruth Sepetys



Between Shades of GrayBetween Shades of Gray by Ruth Sepetys
Publisher: Philomel
Publish Date: March 22, 2011
Hardcover, 344 pages 
Fiction, Historical
ISBN:
978-0399254123




My Review:
Why I read this: I was taken in by the starkness of the cover and the blurb.


My thoughts:
Between Shades of Gray is a beautiful and powerful book that tells a story of World War II that most of us don't know.  It tells the story of the countries that were overpowered by Stalin and Hitler and what happened to the people who opposed these new governments and wanted to retain their patriotism to their home countries.  I know I knew nothing of what happened to countries like Lithuania and Latvia.  We mostly hear about the Jewish people during World War II and with good reason, but the Lithuanians and Latvians were also ripped from their countries and hidden in farming and work camps as free labor for the Soviets.  Wow, such new knowledge and the book brings it to light in an amazing way as we follow Lina, her mother and her brother and their trek from their home country all the way up to the Artic Circle (and a map is provided in the book to show the various places they were and how truly long the trek was.

Lina was an amazing character.  She demonstrates the typical teenage emotions.  She just wanted to be a normal teenager, draw, create her art and go on to train with a great artist.  Just a normal life.  Instead her life is stormed into by Soviet forces and she is forced to travel is absolutely horrid conditions to work camps where the conditions are not much better.  I like how she grows during the book from a selfish teenager to a strong young woman that just wants to hold the small group she is in together through the tough times.  She truly makes the book and Ms. Sepetys has created an amazing character in Lina.

If you have been holding off on this because of what seems like harsh subject matter like I was, please get the book and read it.  It's sad yes, but there is hope in the novel as well and strength of spirit.  I truly found it as inspiring as it was sad.  Ms. Sepetys does a marvelous job giving the book just the right tone so it doesn't cross over to completely depressing as it could easily have done.

I am so glad I read this book and learned about the little-known part of history.  I admire the Lithuanians and the Latvians and the others who persevered in these harsh conditions and I admire Ms. Setpetys for telling their story.

My Rating: 4.75/5.0

About the Book:

Lina is just like any other fifteen-year-old Lithuanian girl in 1941. She paints, she draws, she gets crushes on boys. Until one night when Soviet officers barge into her home, tearing her family from the comfortable life they've known. Separated from her father, forced onto a crowded and dirty train car, Lina, her mother, and her young brother slowly make their way north, crossing the Arctic Circle, to a work camp in the coldest reaches of Siberia. Here they are forced, under Stalin's orders, to dig for beets and fight for their lives under the cruelest of conditions.

Lina finds solace in her art, meticulously—and at great risk—documenting events by drawing, hoping these messages will make their way to her father's prison camp to let him know they are still alive. It is a long and harrowing journey, spanning years and covering 6,500 miles, but it is through incredible strength, love, and hope that Lina ultimately survives. Between Shades of Gray is a novel that will steal your breath and capture your heart.
About the Author (from her website): 

Ruta Sepetys was born and raised in Michigan in a family of artists, readers, and music lovers. BETWEEN SHADES OF GRAY is her debut novel and is based on her family’s history. "It's a story of extreme suffering, tremendous hope, and how sometimes love reveals the miraculous nature of the human spirit," says Sepetys. Ruta now lives with her family in Tennessee.

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FTC Information: I received this book from the publisher for a honest review.  I have Amazon links on my review pages but I do not make any money from these because of NC laws.  I put them solely for people to check out the books on a retail site.



It's Monday What Are You Reading - March 28

Come post weekly and see what others are reading too just so you can add to your tbr - I always do! For more information see Sheila at One Persons Journey Through a World of Books and join in! 

Books Completed Last Week 
Reading Now: 
  • The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffeneger (audio, car)
  • Drought by Pam Bachorz (audio, mp3 player)
  • Night Road by Kristin Hannah (review)
  • Dragon Lady by Gary Alexander (kindle, review)
  • Born at Midnight by C.C. Hunter (YA, review)
Next:
  • Horns by Joey Hill
  • The Arrow Chest by Robert Parry
  • Sing You Home by Jodi Picoult
  • Madame Tussaud: A Novel of the French Revolution by Michelle Moran
  • The Emperor's Tomb by Steve Berry
  • Red Wolf by Liza Marklund

Summary -

I thought last week was crazy - this one was even crazier - my reading was definitely down and my big news of the week - I'm wearing reading glasses.  I was having daily headaches and I thought about the amount I read, plus spending all day on the computer at work and then thought about my age (getting closer to 40) and decided to try them out.  Would you believe, no more headaches!

I promise there will be more reading this week, but I do need to do start our taxes finally and get ready for some other things in April as well, so I don't know what next weekend will bring.  This one brought a game for my youngest (they lost) and two games for my oldest (they won both) and a lot of fun for me at the ballfield.  It also brought a flare-up which has confined me pretty much to my corner chair today (Sunday).  Hopefully it will get under control and I will start off the week feeling well.

Best of the weekBoth books read this week were great in their own way - one for the romance and escapism the other for it's realism so I can't choose this week.


How was your week?

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Saturday Giveaway #4

First off, last week's giveaway winner is:  

Aik

 Aik will be contacted today to make her selection.

This giveaway seemed to work well so I'm hoping to make this a weekly feature.  It's simple, fill out the form and you are entered.  Open to US/Canada only due to lack of funds. Following is not required, nor is tweeting or anything like that but if you would like to, I would be thrilled.

Not a very productive reading week but I do have three new choices. This week you can win your choice of one of the following:
Texas Blue  Night Road  Between Shades of Gray
 
or these from week 2 are back in as choices:
  Patchwork Dreams (Amish of Seymour V1) (Amish of Seymour County)    The Kensei: A Lawson Vampire Novel Miss Scarlet's School of Patternless Sewing  A Creed in Stone Creek (Hqn)

Please note that Night Road, Between Shades of Gray, Patchwork Dreams, The Kensei and A Creed in Stone Creek are ARCs
 Giveaway open through next Friday, April 1 at 11:00pm so I can draw the winner and announce with my new Saturday giveaway next week.  A little something for everyone.  If you win, I'll email and ask your choice.  It's simple.

If you can't see the form, you can find it here.





Friday, March 25, 2011

The Bird House by Kelly Simmons - Winners

The Bird House: A Novel

My two winners of autographed copies of The Bird House by Kelly Simmons (compliments of the author) are:

Mary (Bookfan)

and 

Falise

Both have been contacted.  Thank you so much for entering this giveaway.  And thank you to wonderful author Kelly Simmons for offering the giveaway!




Thursday, March 24, 2011

Book Review and Tour: Lessons From Stanley the Cat by Dr. Jennifer Freed

Lessons from Stanley the Cat by Dr. Jennifer Freed
Publisher: Penguin Group
Publish Date: October 10, 2010
Paperback, 144 pages
Non-fiction
ISBN: 9780399536151

My Review
Lessons from Stanley the Cat is an enjoyable quick read.  Filled with wisdom and cute cat illustrations made this one a winner in my book.  I loved looking at Dr. Freed's various tidbits of wisdom through a cat's eyes.  It made it interesting and very enjoyable.  And being a cat lover I could see how she brought the wisdom from her cat to the human life.  There are lot of great tidbits in here that we all know, but the way they are presented really made sense to me and I plan on incorporating them into my life.  I also plan on referring back to this book when I need a little bit of a pick-me-up.

About the Book



So advises Stanley, a remarkably astute cat with a keen eye for the important things in life. Perhaps you don't have time for yoga, can't afford therapy, or wouldn't dare cry to mother. If so, let Stanley be your guide. Lessons from Stanley the Cat offers wise and witty maxims from Stanley himself, translated by his doting psychotherapist (human) parent, Jennifer Freed. Whether you're a cat lover or prefer companions of the canine variety, Stanley's warmth and insight are sure to brighten even the grayest days.





About the Author
For more than 25 years, Jennifer Freed, Ph.D., has been a licensed marriage and family counselor, group psychotherapist and educator.  She was the Clinical Director at PACIFICA GRADUATE INSTITUTE, one of the country’s leading centers for depth psychology, where she continues to serve as a professor and workshop leader.

xDr. Freed is a recognized expert on behavioral matters such as teen bullying, character development, marriage and family relationships, and diversity issues.  She has provided thousands with the practical tools to compassionately reassess personal behaviors and make significant life changes.

National media appearances include GOOD MORNING AMERICA, NATIONAL PUBLIC RADIO, ABC NEWS, FOX NEWS, SIRRIUS RADIO, AIR AMERICA, USA TODAY, DISNEY.COM, LIFESCRIPT.COM, and others.  Jennifer Freed currently hosts the popular radio program FREED UP! on Voice America.

Jennifer Freed is the co-founder/director of the highly successful teen program called THE ACADEMY OF HEALING ARTS (AHA!), which serves more than 1000 families annually in the state of California. AHA! is dedicated to the development of character, imagination, emotional intelligence, and social conscience in teenagers , while helping them set goals, support their
peers, and serve their community. For The Academy of Healing Arts, Dr. Freed created the educational book series “BECOME YOUR BEST SELF”, which includes workbooks on Relationship Wisdom, Character, Compassion and Creative Expression, targeted to teens and young adults.

In addition to the workbook series, Dr. Freed has published THE ULTIMATE PERSONALITY GUIDE, a popular interactive guidebook for understanding personality typologies. Her latest book published by Penguin, LESSONS FROM STANLEY THE CAT: Nine Lives of Everyday Wisdom, inspired by a beloved feline friend, has received rave reviews. To learn more about Stanley, please visit stanleythecat.com.

Dr. Freed is the recipient of the 2009 Santa Barbara’s Local Heroes Award and THE HOPE AWARD from Sierra Tucson Treatment Center, in recognition of her innovative curriculum for high school teenagers, which led to a 75% reduction in school suspensions. The Academy of Healing Arts was just awarded YOUTH PROGRAM OF THE YEAR by the City of Santa Barbara in 2010 and AHA! is also the recipient of the 2010 Southern California Teen Coalition Teenie Award in
the category of Be the Change Award – this category recognizes youth/teen groups/organizations that are working to help teens make a difference in the world or in their community by projects, activities or personal changes that actually make tangible differences. The membership of the SCTC is about 500 strong with about 70 or more agencies represented.

She also was the founder of the statewide program called THE MEDIA PROJECT which worked with teens to produce media products for the prevention of drugs and violent offenses.

Additionally, Jennifer is a renowned psychological astrologer with thousands of clients all over the country and the world. She is the director of Astrological Counseling Seminars which has provided classes to over a thousand students. She has also maintained a clinical practice in Santa Barbara serving individuals, couples, and families for 26 years.

You can visit her website at www.jenniferfreed.com.






***I received this book through Pump Up Your Book Promotion for an honest review.  I was not compensated in any other way except receiving the book for free.  I do not receive money for my amazon links since I live in NC (something about some law), so they are up purely for my readers to have a place to check out the book.***

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Guest Post: 9 Ways to Improve Our Lives by Dr. Jennifer Freed (Lessons From Stanley the Cat)




9 Ways to Improve our Lives by Dr. Jennifer Freed

If you really want to live like a smart cat then you need to know the secrets of having nine lives in one. Today life is so busy that we forget to use our animal wisdom to get the most out of each moment and sustain our energy for lifetimes of adventures.  The following are 9 sure ways to improve your life and also to help others around you:

1- Wake up each day and set up a positive intention for your day.  If you start out with a good outlook then you will have a better chance of achieving a good mood and a good start.

2- Give yourself time to breathe before you race off into your day.  Whether you meditate, read something helpful, do some stretching, or simply look at something beautiful artistically or in nature.

3- Drink lots of water throughout your day. A hydrated body is a more relaxed and cleansed body. Water is the purifying element for our bodies and our souls.

4- Remember to approach all frustrations in your day as a fun challenge, instead of a burden, because nothing is better resolved with a tight fist.

5- Make affection a priority. Let people around you know that they matter.  Giving lots of positive attention to people will bring out the best in them and in you.

6- Eat healthy meals instead of snacking on sugar, and jacking up with caffeine.  If you eat well and actually sit down and enjoy your food you will digest all of life much better.

7- Take a nap.  Whenever possible taking a short rest will help your entire perspective on life. We are not machines, and we are at our best when we balance output and refueling.  Don't forget to rejuvenate.

8- Find an animal or a human that you can cuddle with each day.  Physical touch has proven to calm the nervous system and help our immune systems.  All of us need that warmth and connection. Don't let a day go without it.

9- Finally, and most importantly, practice gratitude for the simple things. Life isn't about getting what you want each day. It is about loving and appreciating what you have.  A contented person is a person who treasures what they have and shares that timeless joy with others.

For more than 25 years, Jennifer Freed, Ph.D., has been a licensed marriage and family counselor, group psychotherapist and educator.  She was the Clinical Director at PACIFICA GRADUATE INSTITUTE, one of the country’s leading centers for depth psychology, where she continues to serve as a professor and workshop leader.

xDr. Freed is a recognized expert on behavioral matters such as teen bullying, character development, marriage and family relationships, and diversity issues.  She has provided thousands with the practical tools to compassionately reassess personal behaviors and make significant life changes.

National media appearances include GOOD MORNING AMERICA, NATIONAL PUBLIC RADIO, ABC NEWS, FOX NEWS, SIRRIUS RADIO, AIR AMERICA, USA TODAY, DISNEY.COM, LIFESCRIPT.COM, and others.  Jennifer Freed currently hosts the popular radio program FREED UP! on Voice America.

Jennifer Freed is the co-founder/director of the highly successful teen program called THE ACADEMY OF HEALING ARTS (AHA!), which serves more than 1000 families annually in the state of California. AHA! is dedicated to the development of character, imagination, emotional intelligence, and social conscience in teenagers , while helping them set goals, support their
peers, and serve their community. For The Academy of Healing Arts, Dr. Freed created the educational book series “BECOME YOUR BEST SELF”, which includes workbooks on Relationship Wisdom, Character, Compassion and Creative Expression, targeted to teens and young adults.

In addition to the workbook series, Dr. Freed has published THE ULTIMATE PERSONALITY GUIDE, a popular interactive guidebook for understanding personality typologies. Her latest book published by Penguin, LESSONS FROM STANLEY THE CAT: Nine Lives of Everyday Wisdom, inspired by a beloved feline friend, has received rave reviews. To learn more about Stanley, please visit stanleythecat.com.

Dr. Freed is the recipient of the 2009 Santa Barbara’s Local Heroes Award and THE HOPE AWARD from Sierra Tucson Treatment Center, in recognition of her innovative curriculum for high school teenagers, which led to a 75% reduction in school suspensions. The Academy of Healing Arts was just awarded YOUTH PROGRAM OF THE YEAR by the City of Santa Barbara in 2010 and AHA! is also the recipient of the 2010 Southern California Teen Coalition Teenie Award in
the category of Be the Change Award – this category recognizes youth/teen groups/organizations that are working to help teens make a difference in the world or in their community by projects, activities or personal changes that actually make tangible differences. The membership of the SCTC is about 500 strong with about 70 or more agencies represented.

She also was the founder of the statewide program called THE MEDIA PROJECT which worked with teens to produce media products for the prevention of drugs and violent offenses.

Additionally, Jennifer is a renowned psychological astrologer with thousands of clients all over the country and the world. She is the director of Astrological Counseling Seminars which has provided classes to over a thousand students. She has also maintained a clinical practice in Santa Barbara serving individuals, couples, and families for 26 years.

You can visit her website at www.jenniferfreed.com.







My review of Lessons From Stanley the Cat by Dr. Jennifer Freed will come tomorrow and I can tell you now it is a delightful book.